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October 27, 2013 1:38 pm at 1:38 pm #611052Trust 789Member
If one goes in to a chassidishe rebbe and the rebbe says something you don’t agree with, can you state why you don’t agree with what the rebbe said.
October 27, 2013 3:38 pm at 3:38 pm #983790WIYMemberTrust
You can respectfully ask questions like if you saw different in such and such sefer you can say you don’t understand because you saw such and such in x sefer.
October 27, 2013 3:46 pm at 3:46 pm #983791Trust 789MemberWIY: I’m not talking about halacha. If one goes to ask advice from a rebbe, and you don’t agree with his answer. Is it ok to say respectfully what you think about it, even if it differs with what the rebbe just said.
October 27, 2013 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm #983792keepitcomingMemberwell why did u ask his opinion to begin with if you know the anser and dont value what he says??
October 27, 2013 5:14 pm at 5:14 pm #983793RedlegParticipantNever mind a “Grand Rabbi”, If you specifically ask someone for advice on a particular subject and you find that you don’t agree with the advice offered, Just thank them for their comments and go about your business.
October 27, 2013 5:16 pm at 5:16 pm #983794Little FroggieParticipantIn a respectful way, I think it would be OK. Not advisable, but OK. There are some Rebbes out there that know what they’re talking about, some even know what you’re talking about, some even what you’re thinking about. Yes, even today. I’ve heard stories, many. Don’t want to elaborate, it will only lead up to no good here. But yes, there are some who’s opinion and guidance should be listened to even if you think the contrary. ????? ?????? ?? ???? ???? ????. Torah giants have an elevated perception, they view things differently than us.
October 27, 2013 7:18 pm at 7:18 pm #983795jewishfeminist02MemberDon’t ask for advice on a personal matter from someone who doesn’t know you well. Go to your rav who has known you for years rather than chasing after a rav you don’t know who may be more famous. Your rav knows best how to advise you because he is already well apprised of your situation.
October 27, 2013 8:26 pm at 8:26 pm #983796RedlegParticipantYou know, Froggie has a point. If you think enough of someone that you value their advice and you find that you disagree with the advice offered, you need to carefully consider that they may be right and that you’re wrong.
October 29, 2013 1:38 pm at 1:38 pm #983797Trust 789MemberMy question wasn’t whether I should trust the rabbi for his advice even if I don’t agree with it. My question is, is it ok to “argue” after hearing what he had to answer. Saying “but ….” Or is it considered disrespectful?
I’m not interested in hearing how he see things that I don’t. Nor that he is much smarter than me. I just want a straight answer to my question.
October 29, 2013 3:39 pm at 3:39 pm #983798rebdonielMemberIt depends on the nature of the advice you’re seeking.
October 29, 2013 4:32 pm at 4:32 pm #983799HaLeiViParticipantThe local Frog answered your question in its first sentence.
October 29, 2013 6:32 pm at 6:32 pm #983800Trust 789MemberHaleivi: I was aware of that. I wanted to see if anyone had anything else to add.
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