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September 10, 2013 9:09 pm at 9:09 pm #610572steven2Member
What are some characteristics of of guy or girl who is considered yeshivish/ modern at the same time? As well as is this considered a derogatory classification?
September 10, 2013 11:50 pm at 11:50 pm #974636Burnt SteakParticipantcant give characteristics.
But it is defiantly not derogatory.
September 11, 2013 12:31 am at 12:31 am #974637Torah613TorahParticipantThey are probably in shidduchim.
September 11, 2013 12:55 am at 12:55 am #974638popa_bar_abbaParticipantthat is a website
September 11, 2013 1:04 am at 1:04 am #974639Torah613TorahParticipantThat is a good and true point.
September 11, 2013 4:46 am at 4:46 am #974640SanityIsOverratedParticipantDepends who you ask. Yeshivishe people tend to look down on the modern part. Modern Jews tend to look down on the Yeshivishe Jews. Either way, the Yeshivish/Modern Jew isn’t an easy option.
September 11, 2013 11:23 pm at 11:23 pm #974641TorahUmadda-731-MelechYavanHarashaParticipantLikely someone who for certain things conducts himself in the “yeshivishe” manner and “modern” for others. What thigs are more/less essentially defining probably depends upon who is doing the assessing.
September 12, 2013 12:54 am at 12:54 am #974642crisisoftheweekMemberI’m wondering if we are ever going to see the word “modern” stop being a slur
…probably not.
September 12, 2013 1:07 am at 1:07 am #974643TorahUmadda-731-MelechYavanHarashaParticipantConsidering that most of what is objectively modern is morally decrepit, that makes sense.
September 12, 2013 1:14 am at 1:14 am #974644TorahUmadda-731-MelechYavanHarashaParticipantAnd that furthermore, much of what people claim / have claimed in the name or basis of modernity is hashkafically &/or halachically deviant, which even more so causes the name to ring with (somewhat true) overtures of non-apikorsus heresy.
September 12, 2013 1:29 am at 1:29 am #974645EnderParticipantSeems like a classic case of Goldilocks’ Disorder.
September 12, 2013 2:40 am at 2:40 am #974646SanityIsOverratedParticipantTU731..- Not completely true. Modern can mean one is more in tune with technology. Maybe some look at it bad, but this world is here for us to use for the good. So long as we are doing so, then modern life isn’t against Halacha at all. Judiasm is amazing not just for it’s survival, but also for it’s diversity. Modern is not really a negative, just a different type.
Just to be clear, I’m not saying all modern concepts are good at all. Only if one is truly living their life according to Torah and Rabbinic standards, then modern is just a description. Like working, black hat, BY, MO, etc. What is really needed is a book on every type of Jew. There are so many groups, and groups within groups, that there seems to be a different type of Judiasm for everyone Jewish.
September 12, 2013 9:55 am at 9:55 am #974647jewishfeminist02MemberI have a cousin (who is in fact in shidduchim) whom I think of as “yeshivish modern”. Her family is modern– politically liberal and Zionist, and she went to a co-ed modern day school– but she has moved more to the right. She went to MMY and now is at Stern, and plans to go to med school after that. She is quiet, tzanua, enjoys learning Nach, and is humble despite being incredibly intelligent.
September 13, 2013 4:47 pm at 4:47 pm #974648RedlegParticipantDescriptions of personal hanhagos on shidduch questionnaires can get to the point of not describing anything. Can anyone tell me what “Chassidish but with it” means? (I’ve actually seen that self description on a shidduch questionnaire).
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