nu, so what did you kids extort out of you?
I agreed to take them to a toy store and buy them each whatever they could fit into a shopping cart.
Then, after they gave back the afikomen, I told them I was not going to buy them anything. I told them you are allowed to cheat a cheater, and they were cheating me by extorting me after taking the afikomen that belongs to me.
But, as it happens, I will buy them a nice present anyways.
I consider this good chinuch. And my kid beats up your honor student.