When you get an invitation for a Buffet Reception at a Bar Mitzvah do you just come to the Simcha and eat and leave or you stay for a few hours and be part of it? When you get an invitation for a Dessert Buffet do you actually go or you just toss it in the garbage because you are insulted that you were’nt invited for the dinner?
funny cuz we were gonna do this bf it was “in style” now it is done all the time its like simchas chosen v kallah but in a bar mitzvah version
in todays time when nobody can afford its nice in way that people r not just inviting everybody and starving there family in a dark house afterwards if u r close enough u would understand grow up adn just say mazel tov if u have not much to do with them just throw out invitation