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December 19, 2011 1:32 pm at 1:32 pm #601186sof davarMember
Reading your posts lately, I have come across a conflict that I would like you to resolve.
In the many threads about abuse and cover ups, you have made it clear that you believe that people should not act based on their own perception of the best course of action, but should rather be subservient to their rabbonim. Not only that, but when one sees a rav doing what the individual believes to be correct, it would be inappropriate to praise the rav and contrast it with what other rabbonim have done because that would be akin to a child praising one parent for giving more candy.
Can you please clarify your position as to when one needs to be subservient to daas Torah and when one should use their own sense of right and wrong.
Thank You
December 19, 2011 3:05 pm at 3:05 pm #835971HaKatanParticipantI didn’t see either thread, nor do I know who’s involved here, but, to try to answer your question, I would say that when Daas Torah (or anyone) does something wrong then you are not supposed to follow nor condone that.
So I fail to see how you juxtapose his criticizing this organization for doing something wrong to either of the other points. If anyone does something that is clearly forbidden then they are not to be condoned. Which would explain why he criticized them, if you say he did.
Why should it then follow that Daas Torah is not any more reliable in any and every other case?
December 19, 2011 3:07 pm at 3:07 pm #835972popa_bar_abbaParticipantSo this question has two premises which I do not concur in.
Premise A. Oorah is run by people whom I consider rabbonim of mine that I need to be mevatel daas to.
Premise B. That I have not discussed this with any of my rabbonim.
Like it says in Atlas Shrugged: There are no contradictions. When you see an apparent contradiction, check your premises.
Look, I think some of the things they do is a bit odd at best. I don’t think it passuls the whole organization. I definitely don’t think it is a good idea to go forward with a conversation about what they do. I do think they should have some frank discussions with their rabbinic advisers, and perhaps introduce a certain NY Post article and this video as exhibits.
December 19, 2011 4:23 pm at 4:23 pm #835973sof davarMemberMy question was not based on either premise. When others critisized rabbonim, you indicated that it was inapropriate regardless of whether it was “their rav” or not. You also did not say that if one’s rav agreed that a certain approach was incorrect, that it would then be OK to criticize the rabbonim who did take that approach.
December 19, 2011 4:43 pm at 4:43 pm #835974popa_bar_abbaParticipantI don’t know that any rav approves what they do.
December 19, 2011 5:02 pm at 5:02 pm #835975sof davarMemberWouldn’t it be incumbent on you to find that out before criticizing them in an open forum?
December 19, 2011 5:04 pm at 5:04 pm #835976popa_bar_abbaParticipantNo.
Or if it is, it certainly is not relevant to whether I trust gedolim or not.
December 19, 2011 5:13 pm at 5:13 pm #835977sof davarMemberWell, I can agree to your second point (the lack or relevance). However, would you then agree that if someone did not know of any Rabbonim who condone not going to the police, that it would be appropriate for them to criticize those who advocate that position?
December 19, 2011 5:22 pm at 5:22 pm #835978apushatayidParticipantRav Chaim Mintz is the Founder, Director, Spiritual Leader and Advisor of Oorah according to their website, on oorah.org
Does everything they do have his haskama, I have no idea. However, you can easily reach out to him and ask him.
December 19, 2011 5:27 pm at 5:27 pm #835979popa_bar_abbaParticipantsof davar: The people who criticize are usually specifically criticizing the gedolim, to whom they impute all sorts of things. These issues aren’t remotely related.
December 19, 2011 10:44 pm at 10:44 pm #835980sof davarMemberSo, hypothetically speaking, if you were to find out that Kars 4 Kids had the approval of their rabbonim, would you retract your criticism?
December 19, 2011 11:22 pm at 11:22 pm #835981popa_bar_abbaParticipantIf I found out that they were asking appropriate rabbonim, then I couldn’t criticize their decision, because I can’t ask more of them than to ask appropriate rabbonim.
I would still think it is not my hashkafa to do what they do.
December 19, 2011 11:47 pm at 11:47 pm #835982sof davarMemberFair enough.
However, from my perspective, it would seem right to check that out before publicly criticizing those who devote their lives to giving a Torah education to children not yet fortunate enough to have one.
One layman’s unsolicited opinion. Take it for what it’s worth.
p.s. I thank you for an intelligent and respectful discussion.
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