Maase Ovid simian labonim and b) you must be the type of parent your father was in that case…the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree…
I used to have a teacher that had a kid( baby goat I guess) in my class and used to embaress the kid just to get the clss to think of shim as humorous … Sick sick and sick to the point where the kid just stopped coming to that class… Not sure how he got away with it though…
Im not saying you are doing this ness but maybe think more back to your childhood days in order to put yourself in your sons shoes… Which you have done already, so your on the right track, hatzlocha!!!