I heard a good saying this week from a good friend of mine, ‘Why do we blame Hashem for all the bad that happens to us, when our bad mazal could be our lack of effort or our lack of our beyn odom lechaveyroh?’
I have yet to meet a person who blames Hashem for his lot in life. People know deep down that Hashem is waiting and willing and wants to shower us with all his Brochos. It’s our ??? ??? ????? ???? ??? ?????? among other ?????? that prevents it!
i think he meant that forget the beyn odom lemokom part for now, if we would just be nicer to others then they would be nicer to us, we need to look inside and see what are we doing wrong first before we look at Hashem and say why is this happening to me.
Hashem Wishes that he could just let us not have nisyonos but hes doing it for our own good!! everyone will thank Hhim when they get up to Shamayim after 120!!