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do you share your passwords with husband/wife, on debit cards / computer accounts / or even on phone(some phones have a choice to put a password incase its stolen).
google saves all my passwords for me. when I have a husband i guess ill have to decide
Even marriage is no excuse for such intimacy.
are you mosherose or Joe? (or are they the same thing?)
Vote: Who would give their spouse their e-mail password?
If negative, WHY not?
(If unmarried, replace spouse with parent.)
Adorable
I agree I think he had a mosherose moment lol
all smiles- you too wave to the boat. whats with you guys today
I share almost everything with my wife, but draw the line at toothbrushes and passwords.
Why do you draw the line at passwords ronrsr? (Toothbrushes may be more understandable.)
I do
why not? (you have something to hide)
ronsr: And what would happen if you (G-d forbid) had your wallet stolen? Wouldn’t you expect to have to share your (future) spouse’s cards until yours were replaced? If she won’t give you her PIN number, you shall have to settle for an allowance for awhile – just like being a small child again? I suppose that you wouldn’t let her know what your home burglar alarm code was either. I predict a long period of bachlerhood for you.
Even marriage is no excuse for such intimacy.
Does one need an excuse to for intimacy?
i would not share my email password with my parents because i wouldnt want them to see my things- i would share it with my friends if they wanted to know so i guess it might be the same with my husband when i get him…pin codes are totally different and i often give it to my parents because obviously they are not gonna steal!
You trust your parents or spouse with your bank account but not your email password? Why?
because theres things from my friends that i dont really want anyone to see… not necessarily bad stuff but not the type that i would want to share- nothing to do with trust.
Not the same thing but like you dont want to share a personal diary even with ppl you trust..
I share my passwords and pin with my wife b”h i’ve got nothing private to hide from her
Hey, TB123, Do I know you?
Smiley why would you not share passwords?
I have nothing to hide from my wife, that’s why I don’t feel it necessary to share passwords.
Ronsor that doesn’t really make sense
if I thought I were withholding something from my wife by not giving her my password, I would not withhold it.
Since I am not withholding something from her, I feel no need to share the password.
so you may as well share it..
What if your wife asked you for your email password?
for my personal account, I would change it, give her the new password for as long as she wanted, then change it back.
My business account involves communications that are strictly confidential. I owe it to my clients not to tell anyone that password.
Why would you purposefully change your personal email account password just so your spouse doesn’t have access to it??
I think every person is entitled to a little privacy. It doesn’t mean that the person is necessarily hiding anything, but you don’t have to share everything with everyone.
Your wife is not everyone……….
Yeah, but even a wife doesn’t have to be involved in all the trivialities of life or a business email which may contain loshon hara.
It’s a thing, I wouldn’t give anyone my password to my computer, email….and if I did because I needed them to do something for me or they really really need my computer or something then I’ll change the password the second that I get back on.
It’s nothing to do with a trust thing. It’s more of a privacy thing. I don’t want people to have the liberty to be able to go through my computer/emails without me knowing not because I’m trying to hide something.
Sister Bear, agreed. You phrased my opinion so eloquently!
but i feel like i for sure would. why would my husband have any interest in my email convos? ..so i wouldn’t be worried anyway, and even if my future husband did look at them theyre not anything important and definitely not sm i feel the need to remain private in front of my HUsbandd
my parents do.. my mother doesnt really know how to use a computer that great, but she probably wouldn’t have any interest anyway looking through my father’s business emails..
Hatzlocha with your marriages
The last Rebel, pardon me, but what does that mean?
It means very eloquently that nothing good will ever come from hiding things from your spouse
In principle I agree with you The last Rebel, but there are exceptions. For example: If you tell your mother that your mother-in-law is a real witch, you should probably hide that comment and thought from your wife.
Its not hiding. Everyone needs space. Trust me I’m the biggest advocate for telling the spouse everything and having an open and honest relationship. But this is a different situation. You don’t need to share all the mishagasim, nor do you need to share the loshon hora of the work place. You don’t have to agree with me, but do you at least understand the difference?
If you have to change your password if your wife finds out then that goes a little beyond sharing an open honest relationship, obviously I would hope that your wife would also respect you privacy and not start snooping around emails that are not of her concern it’s a 2 way street
I would not tell my parents my email password but they know my account number and pin number for my bank account so… i dont think i would want my husband to look through all my emails but if he figured out what my password was, or if I was there looking at my emails with him I wouldn’t mind at all.
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