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A few months ago I entered the Shidduch world and I did not get even any suggestions finally I finally got one suggestion so I said yes but it did not go past the first date. I am so discouraged I can’t think about dating it makes me naucious. To make things worse there was a boy that I knew and was supposed to date but he backed out after hanging out before I was ready to date, in that time I decided I wanted to marry this boy and he decided he saw no more than friendship. I was crushed and still am this was a year ago. At the begining of this year I tried to convince him to try and go out but he would not.
I still cry about it all the time and my shidduch problem does not help.
What should I do?
When one door closes, another one opens.
If you remove this boy from your mindset, there will be space for the next one.
Have bitachon that your intended will find you in the right time.
Have simcha that u r exactly where u r supposed to be right now.
Easier said than done, but practice!
May u find your zivug hagun b’karov
welcome to the ‘wonderful’ world of shidduchim. (i hvent even gottten a call in 6 months and ive been dating for a while….) but dont worry iyh your right one will be here SOON and it will be CLEAR and EASY and you will look back on all the other stuff and it will all be worth it!!!!!! ALL WILL WORK OUT GREAT!!! JUST KEEP BELIEVING!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!
Wow…May Hashem show you a little(or huge!) sign that He is with you and that what seems negative is part of His being “matzmiach” your yeshuah.
“Have simcha that u r exactly where u r supposed to be right now.”
i never thought of it that way…. thank you SO much for posting that it really helps me!!!
Perhaps I’m being too cynical, but after a poster called yoyo kept us updated on how she is “being followed” around town by a girl from the supermarket, and now we have a quack who is “naucious” since she only got one date in the few months since she entered the shidduch market…
Yeah, I guess I’m just being too cynical.
IMO – One is better than none!
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