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    twiggy
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    just wondering,

    can one daven for their zivug to be rich?

    i was shmoozing to a friend who is about to date.. and she asked me if she can daven for that. she finds it important. but she also doesnt know if thats bashert for her, or if she is being picky. i didnt know what to say, so im turning to the coffee room.

    #731573

    sure one can

    probably not a good idea though

    best to daven that Hashem should send you the zivug who is best for you

    #731574
    yossi z.
    Member

    Not exactly the best place to turn to for advice rather than just hashing things out but in my opinion if she feels that by having a rich zivug it would be a positive addition in the marriage then I don’t see any reason not to (simply put if it is for good reasons then why not?)

    #731575
    blinky
    Participant

    absolutely! Rich in middos and Yiras shamayim is on my list

    #731576
    eclipse
    Member

    money comes

    money goes

    Who gets to keep it

    only Hashem knows

    #731577
    real-brisker
    Member

    mod 80 – Do you mean people should not daven for a certain cause if needed, rather no need to daven cause hashem knows whats best for you?

    #731578
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Why daven for it? Just don’t go out with anyone who’s not rich!

    (Save your tefillos for sholom bayis – you’ll need it.)

    #731579

    i didnt say people shouldnt daven for a rich zivug or anything else.

    #731580
    deiyezooger
    Member

    daven you should get your bashert thats the best idea. let the rest to the above.

    #731581
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    “He’s not engaged in a rich shul or any kind of shul”

    -Pinchis (The Golden Coins)

    #731582
    Queen
    Participant

    Money ALWAYS comes with strings. Don’t wish so fast.

    #731583
    smartcookie
    Member

    ONE of the things I davened for as a girl was that myself and my future husband should never be missing anything monetarily. We should be able to live B’harchava.

    I think I wouldn’t ask for. RICH boy. Rather ask for your Bashert, and then try to Daven that Hashem sends you all you need.(Or if you’re so determined- Daven that you should become rich.)

    #731584
    cofeefan
    Member

    just daven for the one that is right. if he was rich and then he lost all his money would she leave him?! money never lasts and it can never buy happiness though some think it can!

    #731585
    real-brisker
    Member

    mod 80 – You did say that you dont think its a good idea to.

    #731586
    Health
    Participant

    I don’t want a Rich Shidduch; a couple of hundred thou for the Nadin will do!

    #731587
    aries2756
    Participant

    Since your Bashert is already chosen for you, maybe you should pray that YOU should be wealthy and that you AND your zivug will be happy, healthy and successful in the future.

    #731588
    twiggy
    Member

    thanks for all your wonderful words of wisdom. i will pass it on

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