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Personally, Id like to see all my kids happily married. Meaning, those who are married B”H, should stay happy and those who arent should find Shidduchim.
To see frum grandchildren find their basherts.
To Know that all my children and grandchildren have proper Torah values and priorities and have increasingly strong emunah and bitachon that will be needed for the times that must be faced before bee’at Mashiach, may he come very soon.
to see a time that the frum world realizes that a person can have a meaningful complete life even if they are single
The goq: The Torah tells us “Lo tov heyos he’odom levado”. Did you mean a full life thats “lo tov”?
I once received a bracha from R’ Scheinberg that I should see my great-grandson put on tefillin.
i am not able to be fruitful and multiply for physical reasons
i am sorry if this makes me abnormal but this is how i was born
Very sorry to hear that, The Goq. Do you feel people judge and catergorize you negetavly sine you arent married?
May I suggest we start a new thread for this and move these comments there?
too young for me but ty
The Goq- I know of two such couples who are happily married anyway.
Just giving you some Chizuk here!!
I’m too young for this but I really hope some people in my family resolve their fight that has been pulling us all apart for years.
Goq passed the test of not deceiving anyone for selfish reasons.
As far as my wish,it’s that my immediate family one day understand “loyalty”.Until then,I can at least teach it to my own children.
yes truth i do feel i am judged negatively but hey why should i be bitter i’m a man so obviously i can’t be a victim of the shidduch crisis right?
I’d like to see all my grandchildren married, with my husband & me in attendance… iy’H with me walking.
i dont think u shud give up because of this many such ppl get married
i didnt say i gave up
To see the marriages of great-grandchildren, the grandchildren of all my children, as a nechama to me for the fact that my own parents did not live to see the marriage of even one grandchild, when their greatest joy in life was those aineklach. I would feel like Hashem was giving me my parents’ portion of nachas that they never got to experience while still alive.
ty ofcourse but i can have a meaningful life even if i dont get married we have to stop treating older singles like they are diseased and tsk tsk oh that poor girl, life is not always how u would dream it to be but life goes on i appreciate your warm wishes
My children and every generation after me cling on to their Jewishness as much as someone would cling on to a lifeboat in the middle of the ocean…
“i didnt say i gave up”
Good thing, Goq. Because there is a shidduch out there that is custom made for you and your particular situation.
Each of us have areas which are, for whatever reason, out of our reach (like, I can’t bring bikkurim, becuase I don’t have an orchard).
Doen’t mean we’re not able to fufill the goals we can meet.
Al tisyaesh, Goq!
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