Segula for a Shidduch

Anavah.

When I entered the dating circut, my father told me, “if she will marry you, despite your shortcomings, you should be willing to overlook her shortcomings.

It worked for him, and it worked for me!

I heard that you should have in mind yourself or someone who needs a shidduch when saying Kiddush Levana. This was at a Shavuos night shiur given by Harav Laibel Katz. His source was a sefer written by the Steipler or one of his sons, if I recall correctly.

The best segulah I heard of is dating…

I’m not sure if the following ideas qualify as segulos but i do know that they work….

#1 Let shadchanim (professional and non professional) know that you trully appreciate the ridiculous amount of time, effort and dedication that it takes to get even one date off the ground. Let them know that you are commited to compensating them for that. (Each person would decide what is appropriate compenstion for the result of getting to a date #2/date #4.)

This works plain and pashut, it has been tested will fantastic results…

LAGuy has the best segula yet.

LaGuy –

I was going to use that line, too! (Nice to see I’m not the onlu wisecracker in the group)

Pashuteh yid – Kamyan z”l used to say -“How are you mekadesh the Levanah- with Kesef, Shtarr or etc…?”

#2- For girls- Find ways to encourage close in age shidduchim. Simply put that will give the individual a better chance of having someone to marry. Once againg I don’t know if this is a segula but it certainly helps the general klal as well as the individual.

for boys it is certainly a segula as chazal tell us helping someone in a situation that you yourself need help evokes siyata dishmaya in that same realm)

dunno: I’m sorry if that bothers you, but alleviating the Age Gap is clearly the greatest “segula” out there.

There is this segulah that you light a candle for forty consecutive days. when you light it you say that it’s ‘l’zecher nishmas Rav Menachem Mendel ben Reb Yosef M’riminov Zechuso yagen aleinu’ and have in mind the shidduch (or any other thing) also you should have in mind to publish somewhere that you were helped thru that. ( and to really write it somewhere in a public forum)

panther- i’ve heard of that too! Someone who does it said that on the 40th day always something good happened (the shidduch was read…etc.)

p.s. its not just for shiddduchim its for a ny bakasha.

Oops, your right-sorry I didn’t notice.

Be honest and upfront, but don’t dispense all your baggage on the first date. also for girls, dont wear too much makeup!

you’re all beautiful just the way you are.

You dont want him to go running and call the cops,

the first time he sees you w/o makeup, saying

“there’s someone else in the house!”