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August 27, 2009 5:42 pm at 5:42 pm #590270yoshiMember
I Just wanted to start a Thread on tips, info, facts, and helpful pointers on how to be a Happy driver.
As most of us know, the driving conditions these days aren’t the most pleasant of tasks. Everything from getting cut-off to traffic jams, gives us just another grey hair to add to the bunch.
So here’s a thread about helping others and ourselves become calmer, happier, less tense, drivers, through experiences and such.
Just one less thing to worry about on a daily basis: The stresses of driving a vehicle.
Let’s help each other out!
p.s. please no bashing or negativity (unless of course you are giving constructive, respectful criticism). Let’s keep this a stress free zone 🙂
August 27, 2009 5:50 pm at 5:50 pm #656374JosephParticipantHow ’bout running instead of driving?
August 27, 2009 5:55 pm at 5:55 pm #656375mepalMemberGet all the people over 65 off the roads.
August 27, 2009 6:16 pm at 6:16 pm #656376Be HappyParticipantHave a bottle of childrens bubbles in the car. Next time your stuck in a traffic jam open your window and blow bubbles! Hey presto both you and the drivers around will be smiling. Try it – it works.
August 27, 2009 6:17 pm at 6:17 pm #656377mepalMember…only in England…
August 27, 2009 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #656378squeakParticipantEver since they paved paradise, there’s not much driving – it’s just a parking lot 😉
August 27, 2009 7:21 pm at 7:21 pm #656379YW Moderator-80MemberWhat do you mean ames?
That squeaks paving paradise post should have been deleted because no one under 50 will understand it?
August 27, 2009 7:22 pm at 7:22 pm #656380mepalMemberAugust 27, 2009 7:22 pm at 7:22 pm #656381August 27, 2009 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #656382AnonymousInactiveSTICK TO THE TOPIC OR I’LL BE HAPPY TO SHUT THIS THREAD
August 27, 2009 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #656383areivimzehlazehParticipantmod 26 is a very cool mod
(better now?)
😉
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August 27, 2009 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm #656384AnonymousInactiveareivim, do you have a suggestion on how we can become calmer, happier drivers?
August 27, 2009 7:33 pm at 7:33 pm #656385mepalMemberYes, give the mods an extra dose of caffeine 😉
August 27, 2009 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm #656386squeakParticipantI have a suggestion, but implementing it could get you a dee-triple u-ai, IYKWIM.
If driving causes you stress, keep a stress ball in the car and use it in traffic. It works better than honking your horn, believe it or not!
August 27, 2009 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm #656387areivimzehlazehParticipanter, well
<gulp>
<sneeze>
<wipe nose on sleeve>
<cough>
<cough again>
<wipe nose again>
ahem…
well, uh…
yes- at least once a day, allow a pedestrian to cross (before mowing him/her down)
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August 27, 2009 7:39 pm at 7:39 pm #656388mepalMemberuh, why would that make you a happier driver? (unless the wiping nose on sleeve part makes you happy?)
August 27, 2009 7:40 pm at 7:40 pm #656389squeakParticipantareivim, I ALWAYS allow them to start crossing before I mow them down 🙂 And you’re right, it is a huge stress relief!
August 27, 2009 7:44 pm at 7:44 pm #656390mepalMembersqueak, just let us know before you get into the car. So we can be adequately prepared…
August 27, 2009 8:04 pm at 8:04 pm #656391squeakParticipantmepal, if you’re ever waiting to cross the street, and a guy with a bow-tie, pinstriped blue suit, horn rimmed glasses, receding hairline, and a gray attache case slows down and waves for you to cross despite the fact that he has the green light, watch out. That’s not me, by the way.
August 27, 2009 8:08 pm at 8:08 pm #656392mepalMembernah, that’ll never happen. This is NY, dont forget. Its more like, if the pedestrian has the green light, watch out! A car might still be coming thru the red light! Check again, and again, and again…
August 27, 2009 10:01 pm at 10:01 pm #656393areivimzehlazehParticipantuh- that’d be me <blush> <snort> <wipe nose>
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August 28, 2009 12:19 am at 12:19 am #656394YW Moderator-72Participantareivimzehlazeh
I have warned you before about clearing your throat in front of the open-mic, I am a bit surprised that I have to warn you about making yourself presentable when the cameras are rolling…
August 28, 2009 12:55 am at 12:55 am #656395areivimzehlazehParticipantok ok, I straightened my neon green bowtie- better?
btw- when you’re 7’10”, and need to bend as far down to the mic as I do, the bowtie n’ red beard tend to brush against the mic… my voice is not that muffled (close- but not that muffled)
August 28, 2009 2:03 am at 2:03 am #656396SJSinNYCMemberQuit driving in New York City. Seriously, its amazing how driving in Iowa or West Virginia is relaxing.
August 28, 2009 2:17 am at 2:17 am #656397tzippiMemberSomeone (a male singer) did a cover fairly recently, I think, or else drs’ offices, etc. are choosing to play it all the time.
August 30, 2009 5:00 am at 5:00 am #656398ambushParticipantwhen you feel yourself not being a “happy driver”
turn up some nice calming music!
and estherh thats a cute one! I think i’ll try it!
we used to write messages and pass out food but if bubbles work…!
gotta try it!
🙂
August 30, 2009 5:28 am at 5:28 am #656399squeakParticipantSJS – it is so relaxing that it is dangerous! Counting corn rows is more soporific than sheep.
August 30, 2009 6:03 am at 6:03 am #656400ambushParticipantsqueak i second that!
although what could be even more dangerous is driving on a trpk for over 200 miles at some unearthly hour… you’re soooo tired and the road just stretches e-n-d-l-e-s-s-l-y….
But whats more dangerous, is an angry driving.
Back to the topic on hand.
any suggestions?
August 30, 2009 6:09 am at 6:09 am #656401JosephParticipantHorse & buggy?
August 30, 2009 2:13 pm at 2:13 pm #656402yankdownunderMemberYoshi- Try listening to a Torah Tape, Dof Yomi Tape or anything that has Kedusha. This may help put you in a better frame of mind while driving.
August 30, 2009 3:31 pm at 3:31 pm #656403Mrs. BeautifulMemberMUSIC good tapes relieve driving stress and keep you upbeat!!
August 31, 2009 4:42 pm at 4:42 pm #656404yoshiMemberWhen I first started driving, I took things a bit too personal, and aggressively. If I got cut off, I honked, and got upset. If I saw someone doing something wrong, I got upset. I can go on forever with everything that made me an “emotional” driver.
But then one day I just learned to “let go.” To detach myself from the rest of the road. To be chilled, and relaxed, with of course STILL being alert and observant of the road around me.
That’s a big thing many drivers have to deal with. Not to take things so “personally.” If someone cuts you off, honking and screaming wont get you anywhere. If someone passes you up, so be it, you’re going the speed limit so there’s nothing to fuss about. If someone is flashing you, and tailgating, either pull over if you feel too much in danger, or just drive on your merry way and ignore the other persons rantings. If you feel yourself getting angry or heated, then start singing a silly tune in your head, and take some deep breathes.
August 31, 2009 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm #656405mepalMemberWow, yoshi! That takes gevurah!
August 31, 2009 7:00 pm at 7:00 pm #656406areivimzehlazehParticipant“If someone is flashing you, and tailgating”
His wife might be havin a baby… Move aside!
September 1, 2009 3:34 pm at 3:34 pm #656407yoshiMemberareivimzehlazeh – Good one! He also doesn’t want the leather of his brand new infinity to get ruined!
September 1, 2009 4:38 pm at 4:38 pm #656408Mayan_DvashParticipantI sing along or drum my fingers on the steering wheel to what’s in the CD player (Miami Boys Choir — Shabbos Yerushalayim).
If I mentioned the other CDs in my car, that would give away my identity.
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September 1, 2009 4:44 pm at 4:44 pm #656409mepalMemberWhy? Cant anyone have any cd?
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