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There was a very famous Rebetzin, a daughter of a great Rosh Yeshiva in Lita and subsequently wife and mother of great American Roshei Yeshivos, who had her entire family murdered by the Nazis YM”S.
She told her talmidos that she is not sure who is better off, her family that was murdered in front of her eyes or herself. “They went straight to Olam Habah, but me, who knows?”