Common Saychel: Some boys have it easier with shidduchim,
but ONLY if they fit: a very specific age, and a very specific yichus,
and a very specific educational background, and a very specific
way of dressing, and a very specific hashkafah.
I assure that many Jewish men suffer a hard time with shidduchim,
including: short boys, fat boys, ugly boys, gairim and their children,
Baalei Teshuvah and their children, Sephardic Jews, poor Jews,
older men, divorced men, disabled men, and any man whose
reputation has been destroyed by rumors.