I am talking to myself too
It is said that if we don’t do קידוש the goyim will make הבדלה
In Germany I’ve heard that the Jews were assimilating into society (went to their universities, theaters, and intermarried with them) and that’s a cause for the holocaust (one of many I think)
Nowadays we go to American universities, sports venues, and intermarriage is just as rampant now as it was then
Ergo the goyim are doing the same now as then
Just my take on the question (you can be free to disagree, I won’t hold it against you)