CS: You’re quoting what you don’t do. That’s not called experience.
I get the feeling that you’re not really paying attention. I’m quoting from what I and others on my side do, coupled with the results we have seen, as opposed to what others do and the unfortunate results they have to contend with.
Yes if you say it’s fine not to dress tznius because you do Chessed, you won’t get good results. But we have an entire growing community who are trained to see ourselves honestly
Honestly?! Lovely that you judge yourselves favorably. That way you will always consider your way successful no matter how many children of shluchim and others go off.
Am I the only one here who finds it frustrating to be arguing with someone who seems to be living in a virtual (un)reality?