you are talking about two different things,. There is one thing to not antagonize the goyim around you. That can include telling them how to dress, what music to play, or the volume it is played at, and such kinds of things. (It doesn’t mean that amongst ourselves we can’t kvetch.)
The examples that the OP gave are vastly different. Noone is asking them to conform to our way of life. We live our lives the way we see fit, and are not demanding that they change their way of life to conform to ours. America is a multicultural society. As long as we can get along somewhat amicably, everything can be fine. It stikes me that the issues that the OP raised, are issues that he personally has, not what he feels that the nonjewish neighbors have. (Perhaps with the exeption of neighborhood demographics change. But as we have learned through our own experiences, that is the way of things, all over not just in neighborhoods that are becoming more Jewish)
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