Ctl, I’m also sorry to say this, but in deciding not to support torah, and rather prepare your daughters to do so, because of these xheshbonos, you are missing out on the opportunity to share in the reward of their learning as if you did it yourself…yissachar and zevulun.
Is any potential monetary loss worth missing out on that tremendous schar? Isn’t that a worthy investment in itself, to be considered in olam haba as if you spent years and years learning torah be’hasmada?