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n0mesorah
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Dear Fake,

I am not endorsing anything, Chas V’shalom that anybody should read my post that way!

My point was that us as the laity should say that gittin are very complex and critical to the concept of a future klal yisrael, and it is better to be an agunah or lose some money than to use an invalid get.

That is the whole focus of what we should be saying. Because even though there could be bad gittin out there, the rabbonim have a round about way of working with each other to resolve these issues.

But now that people are clamoring on the street, it stifles the rabbinc channels, and forces an abrupt end to unresolved gittin. There are gittin out there that the husband never gave in any sense of the word, but the experts can detect these and deal with them. But they cannot deal with hordes of unruly ignorami. Be they MO, YV, or Hasidic.