Reply To: An End to Shidduch Résumés by Rabbi Chananya Weissman

mentsch1 said:

“Can we call him an expert if he’s still not married?”

response to mentsch1:

Just because someone is married, that does not prove that he or she is “an expert”.

There are many people with below-average personalities who got married because they are tall or rich or beautiful; and there are many people with above-average personalities who are not married because they are short or poor or ugly.

There are many people with below-average intelligence who got married because they are tall or rich or beautiful; and there are many people with above-average intelligence who are not married because they are short or poor or ugly.

Also, there are many people who are married now, but will be divorced in the future.
Are people who are married now, but will be divorced in the future “expert”, because they are married now?

You seem to not understand that if our personal circumstances were just a little different, many people who are married now would not be married, and many people who are not married now would be married now.