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“Its hard to imagine an person with intelligence.”

Lol thats an admittedly funny “sentence”

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I get that but it quickly turns into a long screed, with barely a coherent point.
Shidduch resumes are just a way to keep basic information about individuals straight. Nothing more nothing less. It is not reasonable to expect shadchanim to memorize where everyone who contacted them went to Yeshiva/seminary not to mention their phone numbers. So they are written down. that’s it . That’s all it is.
you don’t like it and want to only use people who know that stuff about you? no problem go for it. n o need to write over 3000 words about it.

incidentally this was written in 2018. Presumably he followed his advice and got rid of his resume. did it help?