Everyone agrees that *some* people are too picky and, as a result, they are delayed many years in getting married. That being the case, and universally acknowledged, what SHOULD a good person trying to help get married an older single who is too picky, resulting in his singlehood, do in order to help him?
If he refrains from politely and lovingly pointing out to him or her that he or she is too picky, and it is resulting in their remaining single, then that single person may never stop being too picky and, thereby, indefinitely sabotage their own married prospects.
The only solution is for someone to help the single understand that they are being too picky.