Pekak
Off topic……
Ya what I’ve heard at Shiva houses it’s incredible how stupid people are. I don’t understand why people say stupid things there. Guess they are trying to comfort them but don’t know how so they just use any words….
It’s not clear to me and I’m sure to many you just want to punch that person and stuff up his mouth to stop talking and saying stupid things.
Yes being single is hard I don’t think that if you’re older means it’s because you’re being too picky it can also be that reason but there is many other reasons. So hearing that should make you want to ignore the guy the same way he says something stupid and you’ll know that he’s wrong cuz you’re own issues or whatever you’re trying to figure out. I personally let things in one ear and out the other right away unless I feel I can gain something from what was said. It takes a lot to be confident in your spot and past decisions and your current state of life and even they say you missed the bashert to feel ok I’m doing what makes sense for me under the guidance of my Rebbi and I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be right now.
Anyway thanks to all the criticizers and trying to be supporters. I’m sorry but we don’t need and won’t listen to you unless it’s helpful!