Syag, you’re referring to the “what,” and I’m referring to the “why.”
I’ve seen several accounts from survivors; they address what happened to them and the pain they went through as a result. But they never explain what about their experiences causes their pain, nor do they need to; it’s just a reality. My point is that it’s not a reality that we would know about without being told it.
Ask any elderly person what the big deal is if a kid gets touched; most don’t understand it at all.