Regarding the idea that “stop proselytizing” is sinas chinam – that would be true if the statement was made in a vacuum. It’s not. People say that(including me) because many in chabad believe that they must spread their torah – not “the” torah, but specifically their chasidus – for a jew to be complete, and for the geulah to come. Chabad are the only group who sends troops of their bochurim to other communities to educate them in their ways, multiple times a year. They show up in our yeshivos unannounced, open liquor without having the consent of the administration, and talk about theit chasidus. Does bobov, satmar, ger, vizhnitz, etc…go and proselytize? No!
Please do this on a different thread instead of taking this one in that direction.