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I’m so sorry you feel offended Reb elizer becuase of what I said, again I’m reiterating that whatever proofs you brought do not have shaychus to this case, this case is not kol isha, and your sevaras are not really making sense to me and they seem to not really have shaychus to this case, (ie. you were speaking about yichud and kol isha)
Anyhow the smoking gun to this case is this https://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/goodbye-coffee-room-1
In the above link you will see how others respond to one leaving the coffee room this proves my sevara is true, it shows that there is a connection made between people in the coffee room, one personmakes a deep connection to that others personality and there’s real emotional connection on a deep level between men and women, as ujm brought up pen pals are ussor becuase you are connecting to the opposite gender emotantailly and feeling attached to them, and the link above will prove my point about how yiddeshe kinderlach are doing the same on this site, just read some of the reply’s in the above link,
one being “no pls don’t go”
Another being “pls continue to check up on me”
I’m not trying to attack other peoples emotions I’m just trying to point out this proves how attached cr memebers are to each other, men and women soem married, if you wouldn’t have a friend of the opposite gender without your spouse involved why would you do it online???
HASHEM YERACHEIM