“Why go to something designed for mentally ill individuals??”
This statement alone proves you are spewing nonsense on a topic you don’t understand, claiming a talmid chochom erred because you think you have enough understanding of his words to comment, when all you read is a small book.
Seriously, if not having a clue about something is not enough to get you to stop commenting on it, what will? For most healthy people, ignorance is a deterrent to acting like an authority. I don’t understand why you always insist on pushing forward in the face of being told you are wrong. Perhaps a few good self help books would be useful after all. And honestly, I have just the author to recommend.