“if calling out sins and not embracing sinners as our brothers is “subjugation” then so be it…”
It seems that thou worries a lot more about “embracing sinners as your brothers” but less so about condemning your sisters for matters that are really your brothers’ concern. And I respectfully disagree that the tone of a material percentage of the tzinius threads is balanced versus implicitly misogynistic. Women should work to understand what you reference as the “nisyonos” of some men in the tzibur but I don’t sense a reciprocal concern with how some of the demands for greater adherence to tzinius guidelines can both degrade and subordinate women.