” When a family goes away for the summer and only sees their father for Shabbos cause he works the entire week then at least the family feels good that they are getting to enjoy a nice summer vacation versus like rosh Hashana when they are stuck at home and alone without their father to enjoy yom tov with.”
Rosh Hashanah is a serious Yom Hadin. Many of the serious breslevers who go to uman, spend most of the hours of the day in shul so the kids and wives would barely see the father anyway. Most women feel that it’s a huge zechus and want their husbands to go.
Also, I think that if women were given a choice of having their husband go on frequent business trips to mixed conventions where the women will be dressed to kill, or to send their husband once a year to uman for Rosh Hashana, I think most would choose this.