What’s are the best ways for every Yiddishe mishpacha to honor their family patriarch in recognition for all he does for the family, and by extension, for Klal Yisroel?
Stand up when he comes into the room
Don’t sit in his seat
Don’t argue with him disrespectfully
Don’t interrupt him
Ask him about his day first
Serve him food first
Anything else that would show he’s the king of the house
Please enlighten us as to how your multiple pretend wives honor their family patriarch in recognition of all that you pretend to do for them and by extension, all of Klal Yisrael?
He should be referred to in third person by all members of his household. “Would The Father like a glass of water to drink?” “Can The Father learn with me later?” “I apologize to The Father for making him so angry before.” “Hello Father and welcome home.”
When it’s time for the monthly bath let him go first and
have the clean water. That’s how it was done in the Alte Heim. Just make sure at the end when the water is so dirty that you don’t throw out the baby with the bathwater.