Silent majority
Please read drpeppers post
You need to actually give the get to a bais din prior to seeking the heter
My source (the same relative) called it being “mishalish” the get with a bais din
As for the other details in drpepeppers post I can’t vouch for it
Apparently there is a rashba that already considered the cherem batul in those days and most authorities agree with that
Rav Asher Weiss has a well explained tshuva on the subject (I think chelek 1:75)
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