“What i find ridiculous, is that frum people have become so enamored with the presence of non frum jews that some think it’s still within the parameters of “jew”. ”
They are. Get over it.
“Some think “well, if we didn’t have the Torah, we’d be like Israelis..” that’s because the zionists have succeeded in supplanting the definition of a jew with that of a nation-state.”
I disagree. There were Jews before the Zionists who were already identifying as Jews without any religion.