I think those Frum Jews who are in the autism and aspersers community would have a better insight on this issue. Again you are going to be getting advice from presumably neurotypical people on this forum (I don’t think anyone has elected to self identify as on the spectrum here). Each chabad is different much like how every community is different and it depends on what type of relationships you are looking to foster.
It could be you don’t know yet and thats fine.
In general like anyone trying to find their space, this will be a trial and error type of process.
I wish you only the best of luck.