Yehudis, halacha doesn’t change because we don’t understand it lr have a kashya on it. What I meant was that gemara and meforshim routinely ask earth shattering questions which undermine initial understandings or raise clear contradiction – women are generally more “nispa’al” from this because they’re not hsed to it from learning gemara.
I don’t believe you have the ability to read through an entire piece in reb akiva aiger; nor do the vast majority of male posters here.
I’m not going to cry over others’ misbehaviors; if I were a tzadik I would, but I’m more concerned with my own issues.