always ask questions. participant: > not knowing the girl, of course, but how would you ensure that in 20 years she is not going to post about her great skills in punishing her kids? R Pliskin writes a young lady who did not like how her mother was treating her father, and then was horrified that a month after the wedding, same words popped out of her mouth. A person needs to do serious work on his/her middos if they have bad influences in life. If they do, of course, they become indeed very special
i honestly agree with you. i learned with her mother, eishis chayil in school ( i was 2 grades older) and we all knew how she suffers and what goes on in her family, but she was a very popular girl and everyone liked her, she was the best and nicest girl we always said how she will break her mothers cycle of pain and be a good mother, but suddenly at 21 when she got married and then 2 years later had a baby (this girl now in shiduchim) she suddenly turned into a tough and stubborn young woman and started being just like her mother
yes you are right. you could never know what will happen after she gets married and starts her own life. but as someone who knows first hand what going on there at home i think this girl will do what she can do never to be similar to her mother in any way
well I can only assume, since both of you are using the same computer, that your high school days may not quite have ended. -29