: “A Get refuser without a Siruv” is the same oxymoron”
This is incorrect.
You are making the same mistake as earlier. You mean the the Hilchos Even Haezer sense. however in the bein adom lechaveiro sense, you are incorrect
(to be clear that does not necessarily allow for pressure shaming etc THOSE halachos are found in Even Haezer, whci his the source of your confusion)