So we had a few issues and BH we were able to compromise!
1. When I first got married, I used to cut my nails kind of triangular. My wife was adamant she liked them to be straight. After some expensive therapy we agreed to compromise where I cut them with a slight arch (halfway between triangular and straight). On a positive note, I stopped scratching myself when blowing my nose!
2. I always liked eating outside for a few days in the late fall. My wife always found it too cold. Again after much therapy, we agreed to build a hut for that week and we all eat together there. Apparently, this shalom bayis issue and solution must be pretty prevalent as I see my neighbors do the same.
Anyways, thanks for asking about personal details of people’s life. I hope this is all very helpful to you!