>> Nogea bdavar is not an insult, it’s a status.
it’s a status I did not have, because I was not following my own preferences.
It might be seen as an insult to presume that I would have acted while nogeah b’davar, but given that we are just the screen names here, it is not an insult, just your mistake in logical thinking.
What you guys are adding here, I need to make sure I am not Nogeah b’davar. There is a way to achieve that, courtesy of Alter from Slabodka. He did not want to waste his learning time and go honor a certain visitor. To make sure he is not just lazy, he walked to the house where the visitor stayed, then turned and went back home. So, I should have walked around the block on the way home.