Shmili – take a chill. Nobody said they are bad people. Some of you cannot handle hearing that sometimes a frum person fits the job better without freaking out in a liberal melt down.
We had a photographer at our kid’s wedding that was not familiar with frum life. Ya know what? She missed a lot of the wedding. It was a dumb choice. And I’m not talking about the photography, im talking about familiarity with the customs. Sometimes a job requires a person familiar with frumkeit, and sometimes a job requires a frum person. And guess what? That’s not a racist comment.
Personally, having witnessed many intwractions of sitters/nannies whatever with kids, i wouldn’t do it, and i don’t understand how someone else can.