When I was that age, I found it annoying (I never smoked, and almost never drink except on Shabbos).
When I was a tatti, I found it outrageous that yeshivos put up with such things.
Now that I’m a Zeidy, I realize that kids will be kids, and that’s been true since the beginning. And they tend to outgrow it, and at least I had less trouble than Adam he-Rishon, whose kids really got into mischief.