There is a lot of free advice out there that can end up being very costly. If someone initiates the topic as to why someone is still single it seems as though they are just checking if the person is “normal” – otherwise they would be married, right? My suggestion is, do not bring up the topic unless you are prepared to actively help the person find a partner. That means you already have a possible shiduch . Moreover, don’t give unsolicited advice such as “go on such-a-such website”. You could end up making things ten times worse. Also, how do you think the person will feel when they go home alone after your little talk?
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