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klugeryid
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the reason they haven’t sent out invitations is because they are grappling with a very thorny issue.
They obviously can’t make a regular wedding as it’s totally not tzniyus for two witnesses to see or speak to fear dev.
So they were going to do it ע”י שליח
But then they ran into a huge problem
Who can be the שליח ?
It can’t be a woman because then it’s the same issue, it can’t be a man because how will they get the מינוי שליחות without talking to dear dev and then he will be a פרוץ, פסול לשליחות.
So they are trying to come up with a proper solution.
Strange why the פוסקים don’t discuss this burning issue.
If you have a solution let them know asap