Ubiq- I totally agree. I’m talking about the additional step of adding what the specific people involved “did wrong”. And not bothering with truth as well. For example, regarding the smoke detectors, you are right that it is the best time to drive home the point that smoke detectors save lives and are crucial. There is no excuse for adding (for example) “if only they had put in working smoke detectors closer to their bedrooms” or “too bad they had 8 kids crowded into one bedroom as I have seen so many Frum people in that neighborhood do”.
Do you see the difference?