Avi k
I think you missed my point
I was just trying to prove that having / not having a bashert has zero effect on getting married.
As we see thousands of Jews from birth who never end up married, plenty of geirim who marry, ( I personally know one who I know married a Jew from birth so that should give more complication to the question. Did that specific Jew not have a bashert? Did she have but not marry him? Did the ger have a bashert, did he just steal someone else’s bashert? ), and as pointed out nobody is ready to go on record stating that even all those that get married, married their bashert.
So I’m not sure the point of the question.
Whatever bashert means, it clearly does not Equate with chances for getting married.