February 6, 2019 1:41 pm at 1:41 pm
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Yserbius123Participant
In my opinion pictures are stupid and serve zero purpose. But this is the way the world works, thanks to increasingly ridiculous demands (mostly from the parents of people in shidduchim, and the shadchanim capitulating on said demands).
But if you really want to do pictures, there has to be an agreement with the shadchan that both parties will receive each others picture. Otherwise it’s just prust and arrogant to ask.
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Why is it any less arrogant or prust for the boys side to discuss money and free apartments before evrn considering to go out with a girl.
Why is it less prust to go out with a girl for hours on end at night time on hiways and biways in locked cars.
No one deems to be bothered hete, only about a picture request.