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February 4, 2019 10:58 pm at 10:58 pm #1674091knaidlachParticipant
interesting to know how people are fulfilling this minhag.
THANKS IN ADVANCE ( referring to the other thread lol- marbin besimcha)February 5, 2019 12:53 pm at 12:53 pm #1674500☕️coffee addictParticipantאין שמחה אלא ביין
February 5, 2019 1:17 pm at 1:17 pm #1674523147ParticipantThis year so easy to fulfill:- By listening to the State of the Union address by President Donald Trump, on the very 1st evening of Adar hoRischon, by the best president we have ever had.
February 5, 2019 2:04 pm at 2:04 pm #1674542knaidlachParticipant147 lol
CA do you drink wine every day of adar?February 5, 2019 2:20 pm at 2:20 pm #1674572☕️coffee addictParticipantNope
I save my tolerance (or lack thereof) for Purim
February 5, 2019 2:21 pm at 2:21 pm #1674575knaidlachParticipantCA we have a klal מעלין בקדש so every day we should drink more wine then the day before. i would like to see you on כ”ט אדר שני
February 5, 2019 3:02 pm at 3:02 pm #1674611My husband makes a siyum every day. Some days he makes a siyum of a mesechta and other days he makes a a siyum of Jonny Walker. Since women are also mechuyiv in this halacha of “Mishenichnas adar marbin besimcha” – I join him!
February 5, 2019 3:06 pm at 3:06 pm #1674621knaidlachParticipantwhy not a siyum on both every day?
too much to learn?
or too much to drink?
or both?February 5, 2019 4:04 pm at 4:04 pm #1674652When we go on vacation, my husband always brings along 10 bottles of scotch – because a Yid needs to always have a minyan. I asked him once, why 10 bottles, isn’t 9 bottles plus you you a minyan? He patiently expkined that the 10 bottles are the minyan and he is the bais hamedrash in which the minyan enters. Be b’simcha tomid. Ad dilo yada!
February 5, 2019 4:05 pm at 4:05 pm #1674642☕️coffee addictParticipanti would like to see you on כ”ט אדר שני
No because it’s only משנכנס not משיצא which is after Purim
February 5, 2019 5:13 pm at 5:13 pm #1674695midwesternerParticipantThere are those who say the Mishenichnas Adar we increase the simcha. And we continue to increase until Rosh Chodesh Av, when we are mema’et just a little bit. Let’s see what he looks like on 29 Tammuz!!
February 5, 2019 7:03 pm at 7:03 pm #1674761☕️coffee addictParticipantMidwesterner,
It can’t be because שבעה עשר בתמוז the שמחה goes down
February 5, 2019 8:31 pm at 8:31 pm #1674793GadolhadorahParticipantHopefully, this year, we will see a bit less of the mindless equivalence of “Simcha” with “inebriation” . All the leaders of Hatazalah organizations here and in EY have made clear that the “marbin” some invoke to drink excessively in the days leading up to Purim and especially on Purim itself sets up tragic outcomes. Fortunately, more rabbonim each year take clear and unequivocal stands against the “adsheloyadah syndrome” and admonish their talmidim to strictly limit their intake. Lets hope this year there will be more responsibility exercised along with Simcha machers.
February 6, 2019 12:15 am at 12:15 am #1674818HaimyParticipantThe consensus among the poskim is that this din only applies to Adar sheini. Let’s be patient.
February 6, 2019 1:36 am at 1:36 am #1674833Uncle BenParticipantHaimy; No need to wait, the Rema writes clearly in the last siman of Orach Chaim, “vetov lev misheh tomid”.
February 6, 2019 1:37 am at 1:37 am #1674821Uncle BenParticipantKatanHadorah; Thanks for the comical grandmother on the rocking chair finger wagging no drinking speech. That’ll really scare the silly teenagers out of their mindlessness.
February 6, 2019 9:42 am at 9:42 am #1674906knaidlachParticipantle..le…lechaim..lechaim eve..everyone hehe..here. letlets allll bbe hahappy. pupupurrim is almooost hehehere.
REBITSIN, with hohowmmany bottles do..do.. you cccome home wwwith? when iiis your nnext vacation? cccan i.. i.. cccome along? LE..LE..CHAAAAIM!!!!!!February 6, 2019 10:30 am at 10:30 am #1674923GadolhadorahParticipantUncle Benny…you are right….more important to share jokes about excessive drinking than to highlight efforts of rabboniim to curtail some of the craziness. I’m sure you and yours have a SAFE purim since you don’t see any value in “finger wagging”…..No one is suggesting going “dry” on Purim and I’m certain some of our usual poskim would shriek its apikorsus to even suggest some limitations. I’d be interested in hearing your thoughts on responsible drinking, but of course excluding any strategy involving your digits…
February 6, 2019 12:18 pm at 12:18 pm #1675080👑RebYidd23ParticipantBuy the teenagers alcohol. They can’t rebel if you cooperate.
February 6, 2019 12:27 pm at 12:27 pm #1675093It is ossur and an aveira to waste liquor on teenagers. Baal tashchis!! Keep the liquor for the adults that appreciate it (and need it to cope with the teenagers).
February 6, 2019 12:36 pm at 12:36 pm #1675115👑RebYidd23ParticipantAdults shouldn’t be allowed to drink because they can drive.
February 6, 2019 12:37 pm at 12:37 pm #1675101Haimy: Did you not know that “shloshim yom kodem ha’chag” one must begin to be osek in the halochos of the chag? Thirty days before Adar one must begin being osek in “mishenichnas Adar…”!!
February 6, 2019 12:49 pm at 12:49 pm #1675128RebYid: Following your logic, adults shouldn’t be allowed to have knives because they can injure someone…but guess what? Adults CAN have knives, because presumably, they will act responsibly and not hurt anyone with the knives…drinking too, when one begins to drink, if he needs transportation, there is a designated driver or uber or the keys are given to someone else …but let’s continue with your logic: Adults that do not (or can not) drive CAN drink without restrictions?!!
February 6, 2019 1:15 pm at 1:15 pm #1675136👑RebYidd23ParticipantYes. In order to buy alcohol, one should have to show a non-driver’s ID.
February 6, 2019 1:15 pm at 1:15 pm #1675141👑RebYidd23ParticipantKnives are different because they are protected under the 2nd amendment, and that makes them good. Everyone should have several.
February 6, 2019 1:31 pm at 1:31 pm #1675175Reb EliezerParticipantThere is a shaila in Ksav Sofer if we should make a sudah on Purim Katan. The Shulchan Aruch starts with with שויתי ה’ לנגדי תמיד that is יראה fear, and it finishes with טוב לב משתה תמיד that is אהבה love. This is the meaning of שני תמידים כהלכתם referring to the Shulchan Aruch above. So, if you have a kind heart willing also to share your meal, by giving משלח מנות then you can also have a sudah.
February 6, 2019 1:41 pm at 1:41 pm #1675172GadolhadorahParticipantApparently, all of the yiddeshe lunar calendars distributed by the mosdos in their annual fundraising appeals were wrong and rosh chodesh adar rishon really began at noon on January 20, 2017 since there is now substantial evidence showing that a large portion of the frumme tzibur began marbin b’simcha at that hour and have exceeded any possible inyan of adsheloyadah since that time judging by their collective political and social commentary posted on discussion blogs, social media etc. The actual duration of such such an “extended” leap month (measured in years under Gregorian Calenar standards) is unknown.
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