“It is basic halacha mentioned repeatedly from Chazal through Shulchan Aruch and beyond.”
I did not dispute that point.
In shmuzin youve heard (earlier you said you heard from the yeshivish side) is that stressed a lot, a little or not at all?
And again this is but one facet. your description of Bucharian relationships can aptly be used to describe chasidish ones (generally speaking) would you not agree?
Less so yeshivish ones were they are more equal (though not complelty equal)