Reply To: The differences between Litvish/Yeshivish marriages and Chasidish marriages

I’m hesitant since DY’s response to your question might be right.
but here goes…

first a few questions if you don’t mind

1) Which (of the two) are you familiar with and how do you define their expectations of marriage?
2) Have you heard sholam bayis vaadim/shmuzin/misser shmisen from either group?
3) Are you familiar with the song “do you love me” from fiddler on the roof? (the lyrics are available on line) which (if any) of the 2 groups does that description of love/marriage describe?