RSO,
This is a classic example of ‘moving the goalposts’
At first, you were claiming that one can not demand anything from Hashem and it is a wrong thing to do.
Now, after being shown a source from one of the gedolei yisroel, you say it is fine to demand, but only in certain circumstances, (which parenthetically, you made up based on your understanding)
I would love to have a honest discussion/debate. To do that some intellectual honesty is necessary. Is that a possibility?